27-year-old refuses to pitch in for boyfriend's mom at her birthday dinner after she openly refers to her as a temporary girlfriend: "She treats me like I'm just some random he picked up off the street"

A lot of young people don't seem to realize that dating is a preview of your future with the person that you are in a relationship with. While you should absolutely do your best to compromise and communicate, trying to fundamentally change someone is completely futile. You should be very aware of any red flags that come up and consider very carefully if they would be something you could put up with for the rest of your life. As they say, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them."

In our story today, a young woman finds out where her boyfriend's priorities lie when he allows his mother to humilate her at her birthday dinner. Instead of defending our protagonist when his mom openly refers to her as his "temporary girlfriend," he brushes it off as a joke. He doesn't even acknowledge that it might have been hurtful, and he even gets mad that she doesn't chip in for the cost of the dinner.

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AITAH refusing pay my boyfriend's mom's birthday dinner after she called his "temporary girlfriend"?

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Well, if she wasn't a temporary girlfriend before, she certainly is now. Our protagonist might as well go ahead and let the lady be right and book it out of this hot mess of a family.
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If her boyfriend weren't such a mommy's boy, I'd say she should stay with him just to prove his mom wrong! However, it's very clear that he would never prioritize her over his mother.
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